Tuesday, June 30, 2015

An Important Update

Can't wait until January, to meet our Rainbow baby :)  Oh by the way, any parents have kids born on new year's day? Any issues with starting school a year later or must they start school with the previous year's batch? Did they lag behind? Not like I have much control over my due date... but just wondering. (They also say first babies come out later than due date anyway... so here's hoping)

P/s Rainbow baby means the miracle baby that comes after a losing a baby. It's nothing to do with the LGBT thing... but I love that kind of rainbows too. <3

Monday, June 22, 2015

No More Long Hair

I know... I haven't updated in a long while... Think it's the longest I've stayed away from my blog ever. I do have good reason though. Will explain more later on.
For now, just a quick update... I got sick of my long hair and chopped it short. Haven't had a bob in like 15 years. Never in my adult life. Quite liking it, though I did receive some comments on fb about how it doesn't suit me. One guy commented "hello auntie holly"...  Hahaa... Then I saw his profile picture, omg, glasshouses and stones.

And this one guy on facebook, who I don't even know personally, took the effort to private message me on Facebook to say I should not have cut my hair. I'm so ugly now. I told him don't worry, it's just hair, it will grow. I mean what can I say, without being equally rude, right? Dunno, I must have really shocked and assaulted his eyes with my short hair. I'm enjoying having short hair though, so light and easy to wash and feels great when sleeping even.
This monochrome Cape and Dress from ClubCouture :)  some of the stuff I wear are not listed on site yet, but you can always drop them an email to ask abt size etc or place order :)

Tuesday, June 02, 2015

Charlie, Charlie, Can We Play?

You know all those videos of the Charlie Charlie challenge played by thousands of young people? It's the latest internet fad. Supposedly the summoning of a Mexican demon by placing two pencils in a cross, on a piece of paper with Yes & No.

Well, turns out it's nothing more that a clever viral marketing scheme perpetuated by the folks behind a new horror movie called ‘The Gallows.”

When I was a 13, my 2 bestie girlfriends and I played with a oujia board. Complete with candles and all. The coin thingy did actually move around, but it was probably one of them pushing it. Even I found myself pushing the coin at some points when it got too quiet. Lol. So yeah, I don't believe in such stuff.

But here are some hilarious Charlie Charlie pranks and parodies that made me have a good laugh though:

And this one too, but I dunno how to embed here cos it's from FB :)

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Throwback Thursday - Steven Lim

I watched old videos of my date with Steven Lim (don't know how many years ago... Was before I met David lol)
Steven is an okay guy actually, quite a sweet friend till today. Just that he's a bit odd. Lol.

Enjoy the laugh! And look forward to the weekend everyone.

Monday, May 11, 2015

Is Cheating Ever Okay?

Just a thought.
Do you know how many of your previous partners cheated on you while you were in a relationship with them? I know of a few and I don't think I deserved to be cheated on by them...
But, I was speaking to my ex, GB the other day, and he was telling me that a friend of his (whom I know as well) is being denied sex from his wife. And he told his friend that if he is being denied at home, then look for it elsewhere. I don't condone cheating, but I also think it's unfair of her (or anyone) to deny their spouse sex, and then expect them not to have their needs met elsewhere. Don't you think?
I know it's easy to say- oh, if you're going to cheat then, break up with them first. End the relationship if it's not right for you. Don't cheat on your spouse/partner. You're being selfish.
But what if they have kids... and an otherwise happy family? What if there's a lot vested in the relationship? What if they don't want to call it quits .. or see no reason to? Surely, discreetly having your physical needs met outside of the relationship can in a sense 'save' your relationship... right? And what she/he doesn't know, can't hurt him/her.
Cheating is wrong. But which is the lesser of two evils? To get your needs met elsewhere, everything else remains status quo... or to resent your partner for always denying you sex and then allow the relationship to crumble?
However, if your partner doesn't deny you intimacy, doesn't turn down your requests for sex, or better still, takes the initiative to make the first move.. yet you still indulge in extra marital temptations... that is just unforgiveable. Now you're cheating because you're just an asshole.
What do you think? Is cheating ever okay?
P/S- also, a word of advice... don't deny your partner sex or withhold it like some kind of power trip. It's not healthy. If you somehow lost your sex drive, have physical problems or have issues with the way your partner looks or whatever the reason, then find a way to fix it. Just avoiding sex is not a solution.. and if that's what you choose, then don't be surprised if he/she gets their needs met elsewhere. You had it first, but you didn't want it. Of course, it doesn't mean you need to be up for sex 100% of the time or need to be shagging like rabbits for your relationship to be okay... but generally, if you find yourself turning your partner down like more than 3 times out of 10, there's a problem. Pretty soon he/she will stop asking for it.. but that doesn't mean your problem has been solved.. within your bedroom.

Tuesday, May 05, 2015

So, Is this A Vibrator????

A few weeks ago, an ex-bf of mine messaged me a pic... He found this item in his current girlfriend's drawer. It's gold and smooth, and buzzes when switched on. Then he asked me - "So, is this a vibrator or facial massager?"
His girlfriend told him it's for facial massage and he was skeptical. BAHAHAHAAAAA

I told him the truth. 

That thing is indeed a face massager (I've seen this product online before). I've never tried it because I don't think it would really work that well for the face. In order to vibrate at the intensity to send molecules of gold (or whatever) into the skin, I reckon would take more power than a battery vibrating thing lah. So gimmicky.

But then it occurred to me, with vibrators and sex toys becoming so discreet, innovative and so pleasing to the eye these days, you can hardly tell anymore... what's a sex toy and what's not???
Beautiful modern necklace.. yes... but it's also a vibrator. Actually, now that I keep looking at this picture, I WANT this necklace! Very edgy chic.
 This is not a lollipop. It's a vibrator.
Nope, not a paperweight. It's a vibrator.
This rubber duckie is a vibrator.
Is that a thumbdrive? Nope! It's a vibrator.
 Something for oral hygiene? Nope.... you know the answer by now.

Vibes are getting so discreet and luxurious at the same time. For those who want discretion, these new trend in vibes makes it so hard to tell that it's really a sex toy. 

Personally, I don't think I need to conceal a vibrator. There's no shame in having sex toys. But I do appreciate the aesthetics of a discreet one. Some look like pieces of art! So Pretty!! Gone are the days of the ugly (veiny) penis dildo. Those are only good for flinging around as a joke on some hen night party. LOL.

But of course, some of these are more showy than pleasurable. Just need to keep a few things in mind when you are buying one. These are the must have features of a vibrator (in my opinion), no matter how cute or beautiful it looks.

1. Powerful motor. When it comes to the mechanism inside, you definitely get what you pay for. Cheapo ones have crap motors that are weak (read: not very pleasurable) and will usually get spoilt easily. For recognized brands, the materials are all high quality and there's usually a warranty on the motor.

2. USB charging. I hate using batteries in vibes because they are costly (those tiny round little batteries are like $4 a pop. One vibe can take anything from 4 to 8 of those usually. And they don't last long. You will end up spending more on batteries than the initial cost of the vibrator itself. Trust me. With USB charging, you can plug into your laptop and charge easily. I use the same USB adaptor thingy my iphone uses to charge my toys. Simples!

3. Waterproof... or at least splash proof. This gives you more options, like using it in the shower. It also makes for  much easier cleaning & hygiene.

4. Ergonomic. Whatever shape it is.... does it have a pointy bit? And is there intense vibration coming from the pointy bit? This is important for a vibrator (for me).

5. Quiet. Ok this is not of like utmost importance. But is a good bonus to have a silent or less buzzy one.
Show you my latest toy... Twenty One - The Vibrating Diamond by bijoux indiscrets. Got it from LoveLoveNotes.com  for S$115
This is a one stop site for all girls. I like their concept. The site is bright and breezy, lots to browse. Products. Reviews. Helpful articles. Like how to use a vibrator, how to do kegel exercises, etc.

This Vibrating diamond is so pretty... comes in a glossy gold package and the diamond is nestled inside a black jewellery type box. 

This performs well as a vibrator. It provides precise stimulation, and has 7 patterns and 3 vibration intensities. Easy to use too, just one button which you can click to adjust the vibration pattern and intensity.
The motor/mechanism is powerful but silent. Thumbs up for the high quality, glossy finish. It's made of very solid material (doesn't feel light and cheap). This is also waterproof!! Completely submersible, no problem! Just need to twist open the diamond head and you can charge it via USB. Once you close it, everything inside is watertight.
The size and shape is gives you options and variety of use... there a flat top for areas where you would like the vibration to be evenly spread out. If you want to focus the vibration on a single point (e.g. clit), use the pointed bottom bit of the diamond. The sides of the diamond are like midway between the flat top and the pointy bottom. It's an inbetween sort of intensity. 
You don't have to hide this beauty in your drawer. Leave it on your bedside table. If your BF asks what it's for.. say it's a neck massager (Kidding!! Just tell him la. Otherwise they will start sending me pictures and asking me what it is. lol) 
Check out LoveLoveNotes for more discreet vibes :) (They're on Facebook  too)