Revirginisation. Have you heard of it?
It is when a person is a born again virgin. Basically it is making a commitment to purposely withhold sex until a later time, usually until marriage. Of course, the time spent in abstinance has to be intentional and considerably long, at least one year for it to be considered a revirginisation.
You cannot just skip sex for a month, or be unlucky a go through a dry phase because no one wants to be with you.... and consider yourself revirginised.
Maybe it is indeed impossible to get virginity back, but it's not impossible to decide to start over fresh. I think it's great to decide to wait until the right moment with the right person before deciding to have sex again.
What do you think of revirginisation? Would you ever try it?(or already have tried it!)
p/s- If you're facing mean people, or people who hate you (for no good reason) at work, or school.... let this be your matra...
It works for me :)
@anon12.05- not forgetting my past or troubled by it. It's just something I am trying out (well.. have been for the last 6 over months now) and I wanted to see what ppl thought.
@anon 12.28- never watched tht movie! but not .. does not include masturbation. Doesn't mean u can't sleep with or cuddle either. It just means no intercourse.
@TCL- yes, sex is natural. But sometimes delaying gratification can have it's perks. (I hope!) haha
And so i did hold out sex for abt 4 years (!!) and i might say, i felt revirginised - 'fresh' and it made the relationship so much more beautiful and meaningful.
We're married now and while we're not humping like rabbits, sex feels more fulfilling somehow.
I know im rambling on and am at the risk of not sounding coherent, all i wanna say is its gonna be worth it Holly!
One can be virgin only once.
Calling yourself celibate appropriate use of the term.
Calling yourself virgin again, might be considered deceptive.