Remember chubby Kelly Osbourne?

She's 5 feet 2 inches , very short, only 157cm (I am 5ft 5 inches and I consider myself short!). But the remarkable thing is that she has shrunk from a size 14 to a size 2 (from 160 pounds to 118 pounds)! She shed a dramatic 42 pounds! I mean that's like half an asian woman's total body weight!


She's attributed it to a healthy ifestyle (and rigorous training- Dancing with the stars) as well as a switch to a Low Carb Diet (SEE!!! I wasn't bullshitting you all when I said having low carbs is probably how I stay slim-ish).

I don't know if all her "secrets" to weight loss are true.. or whether or not, (even more) secretly, some medical intervention was involved?? Like a rubberband surgery to make stomach smaller or lipo???
I think I believe her though.. that she cut carbs and exercised A LOT, and this gave her the much smaller and leaner figure she has now.
Well, anyway, the purpose of today's post is not about weight loss... but why women can be such pigs.
When Kelly was fat, women were kind and friendly towards her. And now that she's slim, suddenly, the claws come out...
I quote Kelly-
"Girls in Hollywood don’t like you because you become competition. They have started to get much more nasty. You think, ‘Usually you say hi and now you don’t.' ”
And she IS competition. She’s getting clothes sent to her by designers to wear, she’s on the front row of all the fashion shows, and she's on the magazines. Before, she was just a druggie fat girl who sings and is from a crazy family.
AND... instead of being encouraging and inspired, women are saying nasty things about her-
"too bad she still has the worst jawline ever."
"Her thick arms and legs will always be thick and I’m sorry but it’s just no contest."
"She’s a butterface and her arms and legs look weird."
Women don't mind being charitable and kind to you when they actually consider you unattractive (or less attractive than them). Just look in facebook... you can always see some fuck ugly girl's pic and then some other women will comment- "Great pic ", "u look so pretty there babe", "nice dress", etc..
You don't see men doing this. I think they're just in general, a more truthful and straightforward species.
I'm immune to such criticisms. Not saying that I am so pretty that women want to bring me down. But I do get awful things said to me.
Someone once asked me- You live such a public life, don't you get a lot of hate and criticism?
And I thought about it for one second, and replied, "I do. But not from anyone that matters."
I am only human, I do get jealous, envious, and I get bouts of insecurity where I do feel threatened by another woman's beauty or capabilities. But if you're the kind that will slag off another woman because you find her better than you... then shame on you!

She's 5 feet 2 inches , very short, only 157cm (I am 5ft 5 inches and I consider myself short!). But the remarkable thing is that she has shrunk from a size 14 to a size 2 (from 160 pounds to 118 pounds)! She shed a dramatic 42 pounds! I mean that's like half an asian woman's total body weight!


She's attributed it to a healthy ifestyle (and rigorous training- Dancing with the stars) as well as a switch to a Low Carb Diet (SEE!!! I wasn't bullshitting you all when I said having low carbs is probably how I stay slim-ish).

I don't know if all her "secrets" to weight loss are true.. or whether or not, (even more) secretly, some medical intervention was involved?? Like a rubberband surgery to make stomach smaller or lipo???
I think I believe her though.. that she cut carbs and exercised A LOT, and this gave her the much smaller and leaner figure she has now.
Well, anyway, the purpose of today's post is not about weight loss... but why women can be such pigs.
When Kelly was fat, women were kind and friendly towards her. And now that she's slim, suddenly, the claws come out...
I quote Kelly-
"Girls in Hollywood don’t like you because you become competition. They have started to get much more nasty. You think, ‘Usually you say hi and now you don’t.' ”
And she IS competition. She’s getting clothes sent to her by designers to wear, she’s on the front row of all the fashion shows, and she's on the magazines. Before, she was just a druggie fat girl who sings and is from a crazy family.
AND... instead of being encouraging and inspired, women are saying nasty things about her-
"too bad she still has the worst jawline ever."
"Her thick arms and legs will always be thick and I’m sorry but it’s just no contest."
"She’s a butterface and her arms and legs look weird."
Women don't mind being charitable and kind to you when they actually consider you unattractive (or less attractive than them). Just look in facebook... you can always see some fuck ugly girl's pic and then some other women will comment- "Great pic ", "u look so pretty there babe", "nice dress", etc..
You don't see men doing this. I think they're just in general, a more truthful and straightforward species.
(I'm not encouraging you to like slag the ugly girl off... you should never do that. But it gets pretty obvious when you only say nice things about "ugly" girls, and then suddenly have a different radar or guage when you see a pretty girl.)
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I know a girl who bitches about her Bf's friend who is pretty, but the ugly ones, she is full of praise for. (Characterwise, it's not as if the pretty one was not a nice person, btw). It's just quite apparent, because I am an outsider, so I see her bias clearly.
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And then when women feel jealous/threatened by another woman... they zero in on any minute flaws they can find (sometimes imagined) and blow it up.. in a vicious attempt to bring her down.
I'm immune to such criticisms. Not saying that I am so pretty that women want to bring me down. But I do get awful things said to me.
Someone once asked me- You live such a public life, don't you get a lot of hate and criticism?
And I thought about it for one second, and replied, "I do. But not from anyone that matters."
I am only human, I do get jealous, envious, and I get bouts of insecurity where I do feel threatened by another woman's beauty or capabilities. But if you're the kind that will slag off another woman because you find her better than you... then shame on you!
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usually, it's hard to say.. i crave different things from time to time. but def meat based meals.
@anon- like i said, i may be threatened by someone else's beauty or it may make me feel shitty abt myself.
But I def don't think in my head- shit she's good looking, and then open my mouth and say ,"fat bitch with slitty eyes" or anything like that.
but anw this is bad as well.. i think we shud all be less judgemental over something as superficial as looks.
The folks that i slag off r usually mean biatches...& their flaws would usually have been overlooked by moi if they had just been that wee bit nicer :)
I know she will look gorgeous if she loses weight so when she overeats, I will try to stop her but those idiots always ask her to eat more or pass her more tidbits.
I myself would like to lose weight but i dont sabotage other people`s efforts to lose weight. A lot of women are so scared that other gers would become prettier than them that they do such things... Women are scary!
thumbs up for the aricle! :D
i think with Men... it's about the Ego. For instance, if a man is driving, and a nice flash car drives past... it's likely he will try to out run the flash car??? I think men do stuff like that when they feel treatened by another man's "attractiveness".
Dunnoe...
@J- haha "ugly bitches stop cating cute"... lol... yes, I do see your point :)
@Anonymous 6.26 - Oh I did reply to your comment.. but I had to take that post with my photoshoot pics down because I have not gotten clearance to make them public yet :)
Here is my previous reply to your qn about Lacking Energy when you dont eat carbs-
"regarding carbs and energy- I dont really face any problems there. Perhaps my body is used to it, since it never had a high carb diet (even as a kid). But I do get like light headed by mid-day ..if I don't eat anything at all (like if too busy and i rushed out of the house....). Then I need sugar... like some sweet juice or something, will make me feel better instantly. Don't cut all the carbs out for now... Halve it.
@peranakandude- yeah it can give bad breath I suppose. But keep hydrated... i think tht helps a lot. Plus basic oral hygiene!!! :D
@anonymous 9.22 - yes, thanks for the heads up! That is indeed true. plenty of skinny ppl have high bad cholesterol levels.
I have checked... abt a year ago... mine is good :) Also did the check on viseral fat.. (or something tht sounds like that), and on a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being the minimum amt of fat covering the organs, mine was 1.
Which actually isn't great.. cos you need fat to protect organs actually (i think the nurse told me something like that). Of course Not too much fat! moderation :D
Am trying to eat more greens.. but it's hard cos i hate the taste!!! :(
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@anon10.42 - OMG! Thanks for sharing that. At least I know I am not alone with this observation!!!
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@Jac L. - thank you :)
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but yeah, it still hurts though.
I'm a girl but I don't get it! We should stop comparing, it's pretty pointless. -__-
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