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Whether you're single, married or in a relationship, start off this new year with a bucket list of sexy things you've fantasized about doing.
Here are 10 things that could get you started:
1. Get a sexy massage
Do you know of a hot male masseuse? I'm sure one of your Facebook friends does. Ask around. Massages can be sexy as hell, especially when given by a stranger in a professional setting.
2. Get pleasured in public
Wear a secret vibrator and just go about your day in town or to work! There are wearable vibrators which fit in your underwear and are very discreet. They can be controlled by yourself or a partner with a remote or even through an app.
3. Switch the power play
If you have a regular sex partner, and they usually take control, suggest switching places. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but you'll learn a lot from flipping your dynamic.
4. Go nude in public
And by that I mean visit a nudist resort or clothing optional beach. If that's way out of your comfort zone, then perhaps opt for a beach where you can go topless.
5. Try a new toy
If you're no stranger to vibrators, then splurge on something next level up. Something unusual and new to you. Nipple cupping suckers? A hands-free labia spreader for oral sex? (Whutttt!!??)
6. Have sex with a view
It could be exhibitionist type sex out on a balcony... or sex in a swanky and very high-rise hotel room in the city with full length glass window panels so you can straddle him with the whole city as your backdrop.
7. Mirror sex
It's narcissistic but it can also be helpful because you'll see yourself and your partner in all kinds of angles you haven't before. Instead of being self conscious, you'll actually end up turning yourself on.
8. Make him watch you
Masturbate in front of your lover, but all he can do is watch and not touch. It's a turn on for both.
9. Get a piercing
.. or a tattoo in a naughty spot. They say nipple piercings are erotic and gives a while new sensation to boob-play and nipple sucking. If you don't want to commit to something that permanent, then explore body paint or temporary tattoos.
10. Go commando
Go out on a date without any underwear on. And if you're feeling naughty, flash him.