You would think that if a woman wore very revealing clothes, it would automatically mean woah... she's one confident woman. But no... in reality, the higher the hem line, the lower the neckline... the less confidence a woman has in her actual body image.
To them, the best way (or only way) they know how to be attractive = check out my titties!
Of course, this is in the general sense. I'm not talking about special events like a gala dinner, where one might wear a gorgeous gown with an open scoop back, or high slit. I'm talking about taking the MRT to Orchard, or going to work everyday. Why can't you just dress to suit the occasion instead of having just one slut look for everything?
When I see a woman dressed sluttish I feel that she's thinking... I'm actually not attractive/pretty/slim/etc, I better pop my boobs out as much as I can so I'll have a fighting chance.
(Yes, yes, Holly... you say that, cos you have no boobs bitch. lol)
But honestly, what do you think? Do you know some women who shop at Whores R' Us?
Although you are of course very entitled to assume you know the intentions of people you see wearing something (that fits your definition of) skimpy. The language and spitefulness in this entry is quite harsh and mean and to perpetuate such negativity and slut-shame on a blog where you have more influence than the average person won't do any good for anyone.
Besides, how far can women "pop out" their breasts before risking full-on exposure anyway? Plenty of confident, gorgeous women show cleavage because it does look nice. Wearing a high slit gown to a gala dinner is okay but if a woman just wants to wear it out even if she's only taking the train, that makes her a slut?
have you not noticed that the trend on your blog is that people think you don't think before you speak. if you think you're an intelligent woman, then why not try coming across that way? instead of saying some of the DUMBEST things I've ever heard
P/s I don't think ur shorts n singlets are slutty. It's like normal casual clothes. Omfg some people! I really wonder wtf they are wearing then.
Also u got nice ass.
I'm boycotting her blog. Too many ads anyway, and her narrow-mindedness is starting to sound so aunty-like and old fashioned.
Most everyone here has seen Holly's figure, and know that there is nothing wrong with her. She is in great shape, knows she looks great, and she carries herself with grace, class and great poise!
As many have mentioned. A different woman with fuller breasts wearing exactly what you usually wear, would look like she's baring cleavage, because she "unfortunately" naturally HAS a cleavage!
So are you "slut-shaming" these women, trying to make them feel bad about wearing the same things as you wear sometimes, just because nature gave them big boobs?
Seems like a petty small-boob woman thing to do.
fact is, yeah maybe skinny people get away with more clothing options. But my solution is, just wear a bigger size lah. Why squeeze into something meant for petite no boobed girls?? If you do squeeze, yeah you'll look fat/bad/sluttish.
Even if a big boob woman wears an extra large tank top, her cleavage will still show. So because she was unfortunately born with big boobs, she can never wear tank tops like holly jean loves wearing for life, cuz folks like holly jean will call her a slut.
I don't consider my dressing sluttish (yes, that's subjective of course). And if some other woman wore what I wore... I would not deem her a slut just because she has big boobs .
My post is about women who purposely dress in a sluttish manner i.e. get a tank top that's too small for her, and then push all her boobs out as far as she can etc, because she feels that it's sexy and she bases her self esteem on tht. i'm not condemning women with cleavage or what.