I don't claim to be a guru of shoes, in fact, I'm not even sure if I'm spelling Stilettos correctly and I'm too tired to google it.
When I was in Tampines Junior College, I had a practical criticism exam paper ( literature) and in the poem, I had to tear apart this poem and in one of the lines, there was a "stiletto through his heart" or something to that effect. And I thought to myself... wow! What a fiesty bitch! She drove her high heel through his heart! (Little did my fluffy head know at that point that a stiletto was a dagger and not a type of shoe!)
Anyway, I do love shoes, and I have over the years learnt stuff about wearing high heels (often times in hard ways), and I'd like to share that in today's post. :)
OK, first up...
So if you're a beginner, I suggest thicker heels and then venture on to sexy stilettos once you get used to walking in heels.
The test that you're supposed to follow is to stand up in the high heels with your legs straight. Then go up on your tip toes as high as you can. There should be about an inch of space between the heel and the floor. (Look in the mirror and estimate!) If there's not then the heels are too high and you're going to hurt.
I find that 3 inches is a good "everyday" type of height for myself. I can walk and shop and stand for hours in them, no problem. Anything less than 3 inches... i feel I might as well be wearing a pair of cute flat ballet pumps instead.
The highest pair I have is 6 inches. These are my dinner shoes. (I'll explain this later)
For party shoes, I like them 4 or 5 inches.
You will notice that adding an inch to your heel height does make things significantly more difficult, and you may find that maybe a 4 inch heel is the highest you can deal with, but it is different for everyone. The larger your feet are, the stronger your ankle is and the more experience you have, then the higher a heel you will be likely to be able to wear. (I'm a US6.5 or 7 btw)
Strappy sandals are lovely! My pet peeve though, is seeing girls who wear pretty strappy sandals.. and their ugly toes stick out!! Either the toes stick out too far in front (if they don't fit your feet, do not buy them! What is wrong with you!?), or the baby toe pokes through the side straps! Eeeee! (Oh, and if your toes are seen, paint your damn toe nails!)
I find it easiest to walk in high heeled shoes with an ankle strap, t-strap, or other straps to keep the shoe from sliding off. Similarly, booties, or shoes which "cage" your feet make it easier for your to walk.
.Make sure the ankle area is secure. Loose straps will make your ankle wobble. This will also make you walk less confidently.... and you risk twisting your ankle. :( It has happened to me. Trust me, it's not sexy.I never buy high heeled shoes with a totally open ankle area. They are much more difficult to keep on your feet. You end up straining your toes as they claw on to the shoes as you walk. This eagle claw toe thing is not a sexy look. And these kind of shoes make you go *clop* *clop* *clop*
Get shoes that fit. If you try them on in the store, and already they bite, pinch or rub your feet... resist the urge to buy them no matter how pretty or how cheap they may be. It will be 100 times worse once you actually wear them out in the day.
If you're in between sizes, then it is better to be a little loose, because you can easily add spongy little foot cushions available at most supermarkets and drug stores. But of course, try both sizes on and see which would work best for you.
The Break In
Wear new shoes around the house to break them in before wearing them outside.
If you're wearing a higher pair of heels for the first time, then it is especially vital for you to get used to them first by wearing them at home. A couple of months ago, I bought by first pair of 6 inch heels (yes, now my dinner shoes)... and I made the mistake of only taking them out of the box when I went for a photo shoot.
I thought I was doing okay in them, until suddenly, my left knee just buckled and I fell forward and landed on all fours. Smooth Holly Jean, so smooth. :(
But since that fall, I've gotten used to the 6 inches, and can strut around in them....(a bit)...
While you're practicing, twirl, turn corners, stand on your tip-toes, take wide strides, climb stairs, bend down to pick up something off the floor, sit down and get up. Get used to your shoes.
If you have bought shoes which hurt your feet because they are a bit too tight, then when you're breaking them in at home, wear a pair of socks (or two).
If a certain part of the shoe chaffs you and might cause blisters, then I heard that you can rub a candle (wax) on the edge of the shoe which hurts your foot. This makes the edge smoother. Alternatively, you can use a wet bar of soap and do the same thing. I think this makes the material softer.
I used to get a really good anti-blister stick from Boots that I would rub on my feet before wearing heels, and I swear to God, it's a miracle stick! What it does is make like put a thin protective layer on your skin. It was a small black lipstick shaped container, and the stuff inside was opaque-whitish. It was expensive though.. like 30 bucks for a very tiny thing. Anyway, I stopped buying them as we don't have Boots in Singapore.
But earlier this year, when I was dating the tri-athlete, I saw him using this anti-chaffing thing. They use it on their body so like nipples don't chaff on a long run, and skin doesnt chaff on a long bike ride. And it works just the same on your feet :) You can get them at any sports stores, about 20 bucks but it's much bigger than the Boots one I used to have.
So, if you always get blisters, do check this stuff out. But let old blisters heal first... you can only use this to PREVENT blisters... you cannot use it on top of a blister that has already formed.
If it's not blisters you're worried about, but aches... check out Dr. Scholl's party feet. They sell these spongy things you can stick in your high heels, and they cushion your heels, or the balls of your feel. You can get these at drug stores. (my only gripe is they can look quite ugly in your shoes, but of course, no one can see them when you are wearing your shoes)
Oh..one last thing, if the bottom of your shoe is very smooth... (some high heels are), then scuff the sole a bit to make it less slippery on polished surfaces. You can do this by running the tip of your scissors or a pen knife on the soles. Yes, I scratch the bottom of my shoes for added friction and grip. (Alternatively, you can fork out $ and go to the cobbler to stick stuff on)
Dinner shoes are the type of shoes you wear when you know you will not be walking much. My dinner shoes (which are 6 inches high), I put them on, then sit in the car, then walk a few steps to the restaurant, and sit again...
.So, you can go crazy with whatever shoes you like, even the kinds that will like break your pelvis if you go beyond 300 metres. haha.