I think the bullk of the emails I receive are about jealousy. I completely understand it, since I am human too and I'm a jealous person.
Here's one I received from Jealous girl... I think it's something most of us can relate to. Do give your responses/advice too.
I've gotten together with my boyfriend for a couple of months now. Midway through i realized that he used to like a friend of mine. Don't know if this is a pride issue, but he liked her when he knew me, and so till now i feel a bit weird whenever i see her.
I start comparing us both. Is this normal? and it affects me quite a bit. Am i being silly?
hi jealous girl...
I think ur reaction is perfectly normal. I'd feel like I came in second place :( but how serious was he abt his like for her in the first place anyway.. since he didnt pursue it.
If you love him and want this to work... I'd say forget abt it and dont let it affect your relationship with him.
But of course, being the paranoid person tht I am.. i will be mindful and watchful over the interactions between him and ur fren. U know... just in case. and also... never NEVER punish him for it ok. It's not like he deliberately did anything wrong to you. plus, if u go crazy over something that WAS IN THE PAST, next time he wont tell u any more stuff.
Hopefully my blog readers will be able to give you their perspective on this.