Tuesday, July 28, 2009

10 Ways To Destroy Your Relationship

When love is new and fresh... it's so exciting that we often overlook problems or flaws in the other person.

But give it a year or two and familiarity breeds contempt. If you're with someone all the time, you can't help but get annoyed with each other from time to time. It's easy to start saying and doing things that we shouldn't.

Holly Jean's Top 10 Ways to Destroy a Relationship

10. Use Your Bionic Memory During Arguments
Instead of using your bionic memory to remember birthdays and anniversaries... use it during arguments instead.

Everytime your partner brings up something you did wrong, instead of apologising, counter it by rehashing your version of something they did wrong a few months, or even years ago.

9. Rub It In

Whenever you're right and they are wrong, rub their nose in it, repeatedly.

8. Stay Exactly The Same
Even as you grow older and your relationship develops, just stay stagnant. Claim that you’re allowed to go drinking every night because that’s what you did when the two of you started dating. You don't have to grow up, ever.

7. Tell Them To Calm Down

Whenever they are upset about something, tell them to calm down. This will trivialise the issue that was big enough to upset them.

6. Criticise The Sex

Forget about positive reinforcement or subtlety. Just shout " Damn it! Your fat elbow is digging into my ribs all the time!"
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5. Compare Your Partner

Compare your partner with your ex Gf, or your mother, your best friend's wife, your next door neighbour... anyone at all... just to make them feel inadequate, or second best, especially in the eyes of the one they love.

4. Use Logic Sparingly
When in an argument, (especially when you are in the wrong) don't use logic. Save it for more useful things, like... shopping.

3. Be Smart
Maintain that you know your partner's motives better than he or she does.

2. Let Things Brew
When something upsets you, do express any displeasure or hurt, but only let it out when it reaches the point of absolute seething anger.

1. Neglect

Have other priorities in your life, and demand that your partner be understanding and blind to the fact that the grass is greener on the other side.
There you have it... my 10 ways to destroy a relationship. Best you do the opposite if you want to remain in a relationship ;)


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5 comments:

  1. Anonymous11:25 pm

    Hi Holly,

    Just wondering have u seen any fortune tellers or tarot readers before? and do u believe in such thing?

    Cyn

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  2. Yes! i have. quite a few times. But haven't been for the last year or so.

    cos everytime, I go, I get bad news. and i regret going,

    I tell myself not to believe it but it does play on my mind and I get paranoid :(

    almost a self fulfilling prophecy.

    why? any particular reason u asked? was it just the tarot card pic in this post tht made u think abt it or was it something more?

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  3. Anonymous11:10 am

    yeah it was the "death" card that made me think abt it, so was just curious if u been to any and maybe u can share those accurate readers with us. i've been to quite a number of tarot readers and i do agree that when they say bad things, i really get paranoid! but some are very accurate though. :)

    Cyn

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  4. celestina2:11 pm

    Hi Holly
    Jus wana add 2 more points if you dun mind.

    1. Silent Treatment
    Many couples during argument may opt for this all time favourite but to me tis is really a very annoying 'tool' tat may destroy any relationship

    2. Win-Win situation
    Either party just want to win in the arguement! again this is fatal.
    At the spur of the argument, both parties may feel tat they are right! One need to just take a step back b4 tings get worsen

    Just my 2 cents tots : )

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  5. Anonymous6:00 pm

    hey holly, can you do a little post on how male and female cum taste like?

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