( sorry the title sounds so crude, but it's going to be really informative... if not, then a good laugh) :o)
I know the topic of oral sex (and sex) is somewhat taboo in Asian societies but in the past I have been the recipient of many bad sessions. This is a lifestyle blog and not a sleazy sex blog... and I'm sure we can ALL benefit if men heard from a woman how it should be done!1. POSITION
I may not be able to speak for every woman out there, but I am pretty sure the majority of us would like to be comfortable. If we are relaxed and comfortable there's a better chance of orgasm. So forget about putting us in thigh cramping tantric positions (or squatting!) which supposedly gives you a better angle/reach/etc. I just like lying flat on my back. You can prop pillows under bum if you want more elevation (will minimise strain on your neck).
2. NO MOLE MAN IMPRESSIONS PLEASEDon't pull the blanket over your head. Not only will it be suffocatingly hot for you... but we have nothing to watch. Women like looking at the man enjoying himself.

4. GO SLOWMake your first lick super slow, and soft, and wet.
5. ENTHUSIASM is key!
A woman will think you're really not into it (and not into her) if you just furtively flick your tongue here and there with minimal contact. It's not just your tongue which we want... lips and suction also send us over the moon.
6. STEADY BOY

Use wet, gentle strokes with your tongue keeping a slow but steady rhythm.
7. THE SUCTION
Do not use this technique too early as it is best performed when your woman is sufficiently aroused. Don't apply too much pressure on her clitoris. Just gently suck on her clitoris like how you suck a straw.
8. THE LOOPPlace your tongue either on one side of her clitoris. Then start to move your tongue in circular loops around her clitoris only. Control the pace of this technique. Go slow at the beginning and increase the pace when she starts to really enjoy it.
9. WHAT ARE YOUR FINGERS FOR?For pleasuring of course. Simultaneous fingering is great. Some women like it while you're licking her. Some prefer it just before she orgasms.
10. DON'T STOP

There you have it boys, just ten simple rules. We women don't ask for much, do we?
Get this right and women will grovel at your feet. Trust me (or ask my boyfriend!) :)
Comments
It's definitely helps to enhance the skill... :-)
ups from SBF!
Sporeans aren't so square huh!
Can you please describe what it means for a girl to have an orgasm?
so looking forward for next post..
So what inspire you to write these tips ? is it because you need a good Cunnilingus from him or maybe it was after a good session ? haha..
Would appreciate if you can blog how's the girl orgasm? In fact, i think most the guys would like to know more.