I hate to say this, but I no longer find the majority of my ex BFs attractive. This either means... I'm kinda crazy fickle.... one minute I look at them and swoon, the next minute they repulse me. Or it means that I'm so biased and deluded that when they're mine, I only see the good parts and ignore the bad.
I've been thinking about it this morning, and perhaps, it's just a natural mechanism in me... that after a break up, my mind starts to only see the bad features so I won't want to go back to an ex? But then, if this is true, shouldn't I be un-attracted to ALL my exes? I probably would only say a couple of them are still attractive in my eyes (not that I want to be with them... but fair dos... I cannot look at them and say Ugh! What was I thinking?! Namely the handsome Austrian that looks like Thor/Chris Hemsworth and the Hungarian GB with broad strong shoulders, albeit he does have a slightly Slavic face and bad temper )
For the rest of my exes... all i see are a mish mash of- dirty teeth, smelly, show off, scrawny, loser, cheater, pot bellied, big nosed, gross feet.... yeah some are even a whole concoction of the above.
But if they're so undesirable... then what was I doing with them in the first place?! What about your exes... being completely honest, when you look at them, would you still say they were attractive people?