Do you go to the toilet in front of your partner?
I think I am quite a private bathroom person now. But it wasn't always like this, I don't think.
With one of my first serious BFs, Skye, we'd have no problems being in the bathroom when any one of us were peeing. And I remember always going into the bathroom to chat with him while he was doing a number 2. My favourite spot for chatting in the bathroom while he was on the toilet, was in the bathtub, with my legs hanging out. But I don't remember ever going poopies in front of him.
Then with Mark (my next serious BF), I started to develop very very private bathroom habits because he was a very private bathroom person. In the apartment, we had separate bathrooms. I liked mine very much because it smelled of green apple, and had shelves of my make up and accessories.
When we went on holiday and there was only one bathroom, I would have to wait out on the balcony (Not outside the toilet in the bedroom, but I had to wait out on the BALCONY!! while he went to the toilet for a number 2). Of course, I developed this habit as well, and made him wait far from the toilet too.
Now with my current BF, David, even though it's been almost 2 years since Mark and I split up, I still have those same private bathroom habits. I will not poop or pee in front of him. He has no problems peeing while I am in the bathroom brushing my teeth or whatever. I have never seen him poop (and I don't think he would want me to).
He's been wanting me to start farting in front of him because to him it means I'm comfortable around him... I love him, I'm comfortable around him... But that's never going to happen... I never fart (on purpose) in front of anyone!!
Once when we were in Phuket last month, I was peeing HALFWAY and he accidentally walked in on me. The door didn't lock and he didn't realise I was in there (I make it a point to do my toileting very quietly by the way.. it's ingrained from the time I was with Mark. lol).
Anyway, he caught me by surprise, I screamed for him to get out, he laughed and gave me my privacy. It wasn't a big deal to him but I was mortified!!!!!
I think I make a bigger deal out of all this toilet business than he does. What do you think? Have you ever been to the toilet or farted in the presence of your significant other?
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I think I am quite a private bathroom person now. But it wasn't always like this, I don't think.
With one of my first serious BFs, Skye, we'd have no problems being in the bathroom when any one of us were peeing. And I remember always going into the bathroom to chat with him while he was doing a number 2. My favourite spot for chatting in the bathroom while he was on the toilet, was in the bathtub, with my legs hanging out. But I don't remember ever going poopies in front of him.
Then with Mark (my next serious BF), I started to develop very very private bathroom habits because he was a very private bathroom person. In the apartment, we had separate bathrooms. I liked mine very much because it smelled of green apple, and had shelves of my make up and accessories.
When we went on holiday and there was only one bathroom, I would have to wait out on the balcony (Not outside the toilet in the bedroom, but I had to wait out on the BALCONY!! while he went to the toilet for a number 2). Of course, I developed this habit as well, and made him wait far from the toilet too.
Now with my current BF, David, even though it's been almost 2 years since Mark and I split up, I still have those same private bathroom habits. I will not poop or pee in front of him. He has no problems peeing while I am in the bathroom brushing my teeth or whatever. I have never seen him poop (and I don't think he would want me to).
He's been wanting me to start farting in front of him because to him it means I'm comfortable around him... I love him, I'm comfortable around him... But that's never going to happen... I never fart (on purpose) in front of anyone!!
Once when we were in Phuket last month, I was peeing HALFWAY and he accidentally walked in on me. The door didn't lock and he didn't realise I was in there (I make it a point to do my toileting very quietly by the way.. it's ingrained from the time I was with Mark. lol).
Anyway, he caught me by surprise, I screamed for him to get out, he laughed and gave me my privacy. It wasn't a big deal to him but I was mortified!!!!!
I think I make a bigger deal out of all this toilet business than he does. What do you think? Have you ever been to the toilet or farted in the presence of your significant other?
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Omg. I SO feel you! My bf keeps laughing at me coz I have poopie anxieties..I'm okay with doing the big one when he's nearby, but I can't do it in public bathrooms! I get SOOOOOOOO self-conscious, anxious, etc, and I swear...IF I really have to go and I hear someone coming in, my poop gets sucked right back in! Hahaah..TMI?
ReplyDeletewhen I stay over my BF house, I force myself to wake up before he does so I can use the toilet.
ReplyDeleteAnd also do light make up so he does not see me at my worst. I think I am worse then you.
All guys dun like girls doing disgusting things as it ruins the fantasy they have of them!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.....
ReplyDeletein front of partner:
ReplyDeletenumber 1 and farting= ok
number 2= not okay
and it goes both ways for me. and of course not immediately, when the relationship is new. someone has to break the ice first, in this case, break the wind first.
I totally get what you mean! I was totally comfortable with my first serious bf that we didn't mind doing number 2s in front of each other. Now that I'm dating someone new, I'm getting really aware an sensitive whenever I go to the bathroom. It's no better when I'm using his bathroom. And I have never done the number 2 at his place! :/
ReplyDeleteI still dun think farting in front of people is being comfortable, there are other ways to show you are being comfortable haha.
ReplyDeleteWhat do I think?
ReplyDeleteI don't think you have gotten over Mark!
oh man.. you totally sum it up!! I feel how you feel too!! and i tot i was the only paranoid one.. thanks for assuring, thru this post, that Im as normal as most woman can be!
ReplyDeleteHahaha. This made me laugh. I am with someone new and it drives me crazy when I have to take care of these.. bodily functions. I pee as quietly as I can and sometimes resort to flushing multiple times when I need to let out gas! Lol!
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