Wednesday, February 02, 2011

I Love A Hairy Chest

Leg hair, arm hair on a man... I'm not fussed about. Although I don't like my man to have a carpet on his back and pubes are best trimmed.... I'm gagging for a man with hair on his chest.

I know of many Asian women who don't like their men to have hair on their chest. I think it's an Asian thing... where Asian men don't really have much body hair, except really sparse coarse ones around their pubic region, armpits and legs.

So a man with a hairy chest is somewhat an anomaly in our culture. Kinda like the yeti.

(oh, perhaps with the exception of Indians, who tend to be more hairy, even the women. But I've had 2 indian Bfs before, and they both had hairless chests)

I used to think chest hair was disgusting. Many years ago (like 8 years ago), I went out with a German guy... his real name will not be used, to protect his identity.. but since I'm shallow and stereotypical... let's call him Günther Schmidt.

The setting-Siloso beach on Sentosa. It's our second or maybe third date. He goes off to change into his shorts. I whip my clothes off and stand there in a bikini facing the sea, waiting for him to return. He comes back, grabs me from the back, by surprise.

I still could not see him. I could just feel him against my bare back, and I said *insert whiney voice* - " Why have you still got your t-shirt on, Günther?!"
And at that same moment, I turned around and realised he didn't have any shirt on after all. We both looked at each other in wide-eyed surprise for a split second. And that was the end of that. We never dated each other again.

But over the last few years, my tastes have changed. I do agree that smooth, tanned, glistening skin on a man with a surfer's body does have its appeal...
But, if you asked me if I find a hairy chest more attractive than that.... I'd have to say- Yes. Very much so.
Maybe I'm a bit cave woman. But I find a man with a hairy chest more masculine. I associate it with dominance, virility, security and strength. Plus, I love falling asleep on a hairy chest. I love the feel of it.

Broad muscular shoulders... and a strong hairy chest. Am I the only girl who thinks of that and gets a major turn on? What's your preference?

9 comments:

  1. Anonymous10:20 pm

    i love chest hair on a man too. mm mmmmmmm

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  2. I love men with hairy chest :P my husband always jokingly asks if he should wax it and I always scream "nooooo" as a reply hehe I think it makes my man looks manly and tough hehe

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  3. My hubby's Chinese and he has a hairy chest =)

    I think be it any race, hair on a well-built chest is sexy! Look at the pic u posted - nice!

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  4. Hair on chest ONLY if you have a nice looking face and well built body and chest.

    If ur scrawny, nerdy, pudgy, with pot belly, ugly, all of the above... GROSS MAX. I rather he doesnt have chest hair it's less gross.

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  5. Cheena boy1:37 pm

    No lah, it's not about hairy chest. As long as Ang Moh you like already, hairy or otherwise

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  6. I like a little bit of hair. I find it quite sexy when men wear V-necks and you can see a little bit of it.
    Yeah but I'm not a big fan of too much pubic hair (It's like, 'Okay I'm sure it's there somewhere, I'm just gonna dig around for a bit alright baby?' *man goes soft*)
    And the Gunther story is a bucket of Lols. LOL.

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  7. Anonymous12:05 am

    I like this post of yours..*lol*..Funny i just had this conversation with my colleagues just a few hrs ago..I realised most of my asian friends dont like guys with hairy chests. I thought i was the weird one since i am the exception. Now I felt better that I am not. I so totally agree that it is nice to fall asleep on a broad hairy chest:)

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  8. Anonymous12:06 am

    I like this post of yours..*lol*..Funny i just had this conversation with my colleagues just a few hrs ago..I realised most of my asian friends dont like guys with hairy chests. I thought i was the weird one since i am the exception. Now I felt better that I am not. I so totally agree that it is nice to fall asleep on a broad hairy chest:)

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  9. Anonymous5:02 pm

    hairy chest of course! ooh, why did you put up HJ (hugh jackman lah :p) of all men?? it's a YES-YES for me too =)

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