You know... for the longest time ever... I would have said YES!
But now... I'm not too sure.
Strength is definitely a turn on. I remember... one of my earliest dates with Mark, we went to the Supperclub and of course their dinner set up is on the white beds... when we were going to the toilets, Mark stepped off the bed first, and before I could step off, he grabbed me by the waist using just one arm, and had enough strength to scoop me off the bed and land me gently and slowly on my feet. I know that vocabulary fails me now, and it doesn't sound like much... but trust me, it was impressive. Even the DJ whose console was close to our bed went "whoah!" And nearly 2 years later, I still remember that moment in slow-mo.
But muscles? I think men with well defined bodies can be very attractive but I definitely do not like the huge steroid looking muscles on men.In a potential partner, I think a Good sense of humour is a pre-requisite. Intelligence is a definite turn on, I get turned on when a man can tell me stuff I never knew (I think it's my schoolgirl-teacher fetish kicking in). Or if he's good at trivia ( like pub quizzes or Trivial Pursuit) it's a huge huge plus.
I am not attracted to (very)short or scrawny men. I like the sense of security I get when a man is much bigger than me. Height and broad shoulders are mega turn ons. I had a date yesterday with R. And when I kissed him goodbye (on the cheek!) I actually had to tip toe! And you know what? I actually liked that!
It's still waaaay to early to say anything about R. Only the third date so far. So don't bother making assumptions or whatever.
I don't like guys that are too muscular... a little bit is fine but most guys either don't have any muscle at all or they overdo it.
ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!!
Which would you go for if you really had to choose one extreme? Everything else being equal ( meaning they're both of equal personality and intelligence etc)
Quick choose one. I'll tell you my choice later.