I just received a message from reader Melody and it had a quote I like. So I thought I'd share it here:
Someday someone is gonna step into your life and make you realise why everyone else didn't work out.
I hope so. I hope I didn't screw up the one shot I had at a great guy.
Will it really be apparent when I meet someone who is an absolute match? Or will we seem to match at first only to find out later that actually, we don't. Think I'm a bit jaded now.
But who knows what the future holds eh! At worst... my good friend Alwyn said we can check into the same old age home together and grow old together. (*smile*)
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Oh.. for those of you who think that this break up thing is a just a ploy to up my readership, honestly, from the bottom of my heart, FUCK YOU.
Someday someone is gonna step into your life and make you realise why everyone else didn't work out.

Will it really be apparent when I meet someone who is an absolute match? Or will we seem to match at first only to find out later that actually, we don't. Think I'm a bit jaded now.
But who knows what the future holds eh! At worst... my good friend Alwyn said we can check into the same old age home together and grow old together. (*smile*)
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Oh.. for those of you who think that this break up thing is a just a ploy to up my readership, honestly, from the bottom of my heart, FUCK YOU.
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They're just bored, definitely got nothing better to do that's why.
You're such a great person, pretty, talented, smart and all and I'm sure you will be strong to pull yourself through.
In the mean time, do not give up on love.
Praying for the best for you always.
Love always.
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then why r u showing a photo of you with a sony laptop in this post??????
Maybe you should read further into the blog before making un-called for comments that hardly justify your case.
Just a hint,
" A couple of weeks ago, I was approached to be one of the 6 Bloggers in the running for the position of Sony Vaio W Ambassador. Of course I said Yessss!"
Douchebag.
You're the douchbag. And you're a sucker.
what has a picture of the aforementioned sony ambassdor got to do with this post?
Don't get me wrong, I thought the guy who commented on the last post, questioning if the breakup was a play to raise readership... was an idiot.
But, still, the sony picture in this post was random. From someone trying to make out they're cut up about the breakup, it is TASTELESS
Sort of a cest la vie approach to life.
Sorry to hear about the break up, but i am sure, you will stand strong and definitely find the right guy! JIAYOU!
p/s: Btw, i think my friend knows you, as she did joined Ms Singapore the same time you did =)
There was mutual respect. I think sometimes, wheb it comes to these big lawyer types, not that I'm saying Mark is one of them,
They let money and status get to their head and think they're the catch, not you. He said he loved you. Wasn't love supposed to last? He doesn't seem like
Someone who means what he says. Or at least, he doesn't know himself well, or uses the word flippantly.
Yes, when the right guy comes along, you ll feel and know that you can trust him with your heart.
Hope that i will feel better soon too :)
Take care and do your best holly, because it makes me feel motivated to see you feeling better.
it is easy to blame the "big lawyer type" but bear in mind we hear only one side of the story. we dont know how the other party sees this from his perspective. love is supposed to last if both parties want it to last, but it goes hand in hand with many other factors. but i do agree with you that many people use the word 'love' flippantly.
No one person is to be blamed.
So would it be a Asian or Caucasian bf for next ?