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I've been lagging behind in my Ask Holly Jean section. Here's another one. Keep your questions coming, I'll do my best to reply to everyone even if it doesn't make the Ask Holly Jean section on the blog.
Dear Holly Jean,
Do you believe in open relationships?
I’ve been dating Jeff for 2 months now, and we’ve decided that we want to have an open relationship. He says he loves me but it’s too much pressure to have an exclusive relationship so he’s not ready yet.
I am happy with him and I don’t want to ruin anything by forcing him to commit.
What do you think?
K.
Dear K,
If you want my honest opinion… I think that an open relationship is the same thing as not having a relationship at all.
If he loves you, why does he need to keep his options open?
If you are not looking for love, then i guess go for it. But for me, commitment, love and trust is an important part of any relationship.
Do think long and hard about what you want in a relationship, and explore what his true motives are. I may be wrong… but I think he’s just being selfish and is keeping you in tow while looking out for a better one to swap you with.
Even if you choose to go ahead with this open relationship, go in with your eyes wide open… and keep your options wide open too. Afterall, if that’s what he wants, it’s only fair you do the same.
Take care.
Forever,
Holly Jean.
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I've been lagging behind in my Ask Holly Jean section. Here's another one. Keep your questions coming, I'll do my best to reply to everyone even if it doesn't make the Ask Holly Jean section on the blog.
Dear Holly Jean,
Do you believe in open relationships?
I’ve been dating Jeff for 2 months now, and we’ve decided that we want to have an open relationship. He says he loves me but it’s too much pressure to have an exclusive relationship so he’s not ready yet.
I am happy with him and I don’t want to ruin anything by forcing him to commit.
What do you think?
K.
Dear K,
If you want my honest opinion… I think that an open relationship is the same thing as not having a relationship at all.
If he loves you, why does he need to keep his options open?
If you are not looking for love, then i guess go for it. But for me, commitment, love and trust is an important part of any relationship.
Do think long and hard about what you want in a relationship, and explore what his true motives are. I may be wrong… but I think he’s just being selfish and is keeping you in tow while looking out for a better one to swap you with.
Even if you choose to go ahead with this open relationship, go in with your eyes wide open… and keep your options wide open too. Afterall, if that’s what he wants, it’s only fair you do the same.
Take care.
Forever,
Holly Jean.
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